Are you happy? A new study by Gallup that measures happiness levels found that Finland is now the happiest country in the world. And here in the United States? The U.S. fell from 15th down to 23rd on the latest happiness scale.
However, there is a sharp divide in happiness levels in the U.S., based on age. People 60 and older in the U.S. report high levels of happiness, ranking among the top 10 countries in the world for this demographic. Meanwhile, happiness among younger adults and teens is declining. One of the co-authors of the study believes social media is partly to blame for amplifying political polarization, discrimination, cyberbullying, and other issues.
Of course, we would all like to lead happier lives as we age – but how do we get there? And how can a life transition aid in procuring more happiness? Our friends at Growing Bolder, an active lifestyle brand and media company focused on rebranding aging as a time of passion, purpose, and possibility, recently released their seven keys to happiness as we age.
1. Have Purpose
It’s crucial that we have a reason to get up and get out of bed every morning. Having a sense of purpose has been directly linked to happiness. It gives us a sense of belonging, a reason for being, and helps us start each day off on the right foot. Your purpose doesn’t have to be profound or world-changing. It must simply move you to action and motivate you to seek out opportunities and give your life meaning. Many have found purpose by creating artwork, writing, volunteering, joining senior athletics, teaching, and more.
2. Embrace Change
The only constant in life is change. If you fear it or fight it, you end up on the couch, isolated. We must learn to embrace change and grow with it. Change is not always easy, but it is the wave that we ride to happiness. This is especially true during a life transition. Making a change in your lifestyle can directly lead to a happier life. Estate downsizing, decluttering your home, or relocating to a new community can all be changes to the way you live your life that create opportunities for an exciting new chapter in your later years.
3. Stay Curious
Never stop learning. Saying yes to new experiences and learning new things boosts confidence and can expand life in countless and unpredictable ways. By taking advantage of our senior relocation services, you can explore new places to live and new communities to engage with. Downsizing to a smaller home and using our estate sale coordinators and online estate sale platform CTBids, can leave you with extra money in your pocket to travel the world and learn from cultures around the globe in your later years.
4. Be Kind to Yourself
In our younger years, many of us become self-critical. Social circles and stressful careers can lead us to compare ourselves to others and to try to please everyone. Now is the time to cultivate a kinder inner voice. Give yourself grace and become a friend to yourself instead of another critic. This is especially true during life’s transitions, as we navigate new stages of life and try to reimagine our future.
5. Find Joy in the Little Things
Noticing good things, however small, helps develop a sense of hope, optimism, and happiness. Train your brain to see what’s good around you. Gratitude, recognizing what we have or what we have received, is a foundation for happiness.
6. Stay Connected
Nurture your relationships with others. It’s been proven that social connection is vital to our health and happiness, and that isolation can be just as harmful as smoking, obesity, and diabetes as we age. Community is immunity. Knowing who you can turn to for support during any of life’s challenges is especially helpful. Our expert senior location specialists are always available, at more than 300 locations nationwide, to help create an individualized plan for your move, and to do all of the heavy lifting.
7. Practice Random Acts of Kindness
Research has found that random acts of kindness increase happiness and self-esteem, and decrease stress. These acts don’t have to be anything more than a simple smile, a word of encouragement, a plate of cookies, a phone call to check-in, or a helping hand. Random acts of kindness are contagious. People who receive acts of kindness are more likely to be kind and generous themselves. So why not make a random act of kindness part of your “what’s next,” and spread more happiness within Elburn, Elgin, Geneva, Saint Charles, Wasco, Wayne, Batavia, Big Rock, Bristol, Mooseheart, North Aurora, Plano, Sugar Grove?
Which key will you practice today?